Sitting with couple of B school friends at a fast food outlet in Delhi, I got introduced by a friend to someone else and the intro was a pretty boring one, as all intros invariably are, but what makes it worthy of being mentioned here was the closing line, "Oh and he is from Manipal" which found an immediate and actually interesting reaction that conveyed to me that somebody was now looking at me with a new eyes. Which made me realize it isn't just that I spent the last couple of years studying in MIT Manipal; it wasn't also that it was in Manipal that I founded my first firm; it is much more than that. Manipal has become ingrained in me so much so that that there can never be another introduction which doesn't have the M word in it.
Say Manipal and everyone has an opinion. Everybody has something to say about the place. Some might go on about its cool culture; some might even criticize it as a place that makes no bones of having no "moral culture" and even though I doubt it but there might even be some who might even go on to extol its education standards. Let me be frank about it. This isn't about Manipal's education system or what Manipal should do to compete with the IITs. Ask me and I would say for a system Manipal is as good as I ever wanted it to be.
When I first heard about Manipal I was told that it’s a place where rich people send their kids to, a place that is so very fast that people get into literally everything they shouldn't. I remember someone describing Manipal in six words, "Fast life, Fast bikes, Fast gals". When I first came to Manipal, just the quantity of eye candy made my eye balls try their best to pop out of the sockets. I’m very bad at following advices but here and there, some stick with me. The first lesson that I learnt in Manipal came during a ragging session and to quote my wizened Buddha like doped up senior, " You tell me you smoke, take my word for it, if after 4 years here, you are still into smoking cigarettes consider yourself lucky, coz here people have cigs in first year, weed in second, hash in third and heaven’s the limit in 4th". I definitely stayed there more than the mandatory 4 years and yet managed to come out smoking only a cig. And it wasn’t that I wasn’t tempted but I knew how to keep a tight lid on stuff. There are many students who get out of there even without as much as a drag and I will definitely not be a pretentious and declare that they haven't lived life as they should have.
We used to kid that the only thing South Indian about Manipal was the location. In hindsight location must have been the only thing that was Indian about the place. For a city, nay, town, nay village that had an area smaller than some Delhi localities, the outlook was as global as it can possibly get. Name me one more town of its size that has more ATM machines, CCDs, Baristas, Dominos and other international outlets and I will happily eat my words. When mobile phones were becoming a rage in the country, Manipal was sitting at the top of the mobile density table all over India. And as we later found out bikes were not a mere medium of transportation for us, it was means to greater ends. And until somebody got drunk and hit the chief warden who was happily walking on the pavement and got bikes banned from the campus, Manipal had the maximum bike density in the country.
I learnt long back that it was better to do something and face the consequences later than not to do it and go through life wondering all the time, what if, a mantra that allowed me to dive unremorsefully and unapologetically into the pool of fun and magic in Manipal. So all the while , all around me people were shoving each other in the unforgiving rat race, I merely sat on the side-lines and did what I actually wanted to do and it ranged from going to the library only to check out the paragons of beauty from the other sex, to sitting online for 20 hours a day or sitting on a lighthouse lit beach at 4am , totally drunk, marvelling at the sight of enormously powerful beams of light hitting the breaking waves in psychedelic sweeps, to buying a bike from the money that was earmarked for my tuition fees, to going into hibernation , to finally shedding off the lethargic fat and starting up my own firm.
So what is it about Manipal that is so intoxicating? Is it the unparalleled glamor and glitz, or the breath-taking beauty of the place that appeals to a romantic in everyone? Is it the awesome weather all year round or the abundance of single girls all looking to be hooked? Is it the booze or the drugs or the unorthodox culture or is it all of the above? One word that can sum up the essence of Manipal is "Freedom", the freedom to be totally you. It’s a place that will make you realize who you really are and then let you bask in that realization. It is about doing everything you ever wanted without caring for any dictates; it is about the new social order where nothing is frowned upon by narrow social or cultural dogmas. It is about the thrill of living an international dream without even having to cross the seas.
It is hard to put a finger on what makes Manipal special. It simply is one of those places that simply dropped out of the heaven and are unabashedly what they are and makes no bones about it. Sample this, throw around the M word, dopers look at me with respect, rock aficionados look at me with awe and in general guys look at me with envy. Like the famous Manipal video says, "Don't you wish you were here?"
6 comments:
you've got that right...
if i were to live those four years again, i gladly would, and not change a thing.
Hard as it is to believe, neither would i :)
Loved this article.You completely nailed it this time.I especially liked the 2nd last paragraph...its so true...
Good shit buddy. IMHO, at the end of the day you're a writer. A good one. ...I like that you called it a mirror, because no matter how (and how long) you look at yourself, you eventually end up bemused.
PS: If i were to live all those years again, I certainly would have changed a few things.(branch?)
Come to think of it Abhishek , if i wasn't in E&E, I would have been kinda regular, would b currently working in a MRC. We aren't by any standards someone who would fall in the regular crowd.Would you still change ur branch??? As i see it even it provided a valuable experience.No regrets bro.
Believe me buddy, manipal has had such an impact on my psyche and disposition, that sometimes i struggle and strive to be a regular guy. Undoubtedly, EnE had a major role to play in that (along with the copious consumption of mind altering substances). Of course I could relive/change both or either of them, but there is a reason why put a "?" after the branch in my last post. Interpretations vary, so do perspectives.
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